Lets keep this relationship blogging topic going!!!
So I've recently heard some people talking about there relationships with younger girls. First Im not knocking older dudes from dating younger girls as long as there OVER 21 & mature. Anyway, the dude says "yea son my shorty let me fuck her & one of her friends at the sametime,
but it was in the beginning of our relationship, we wasnt serious at first just fucking and what not but now she my girl we live together and everything." My first reaction was what? Lets pause this for a second because I really want to let you guys marinate on his comment for a bit, but ARE YOU SERIOUS? Are you really taking shorty SERIOUS? Thats your WIFEY now? (All my thoughts when I heard him talking) The chick is young around 20 but he's an older dude, shouldnt he know better? If she's just willing to have a threesome with you, why you never asked yourself "Well if she's willing to do this, how many other times has she done it? Shouldnt that have been a RED FLAG from the Start? LUDACRIS said it the best "cant turn a hoe into a house wife!" Obviously he's been out the game for awhile because there's no way he'd even take a chick like that serious, If I was a dude I know I wouldnt. Its every mans fantasy to have a threesome but not with someone who your going to make wifey, someone you want to spend your life with. She should have more respect for herself as a female & to even call the other chick your friend is beyond NAIVE. She's definitely not your friend because she would do it again which brings me back to the conversation... He goes "yeah now shorty want me to fuck her again, should I do it?" his friend was like "son I wouldnt because thats your shorty now, ya'll live together, she let it go down in the beginning because ya'll wasnt taking eachother seriously but now ya'll serious & if she's down with it again question yourself and ask how many other times she done that shit, cause no chick in there right mind would let that go down i dont care how much she want to please you a threesome would be out of it. unless she's a smut!" I just laughed like this nigga is an ass & he's surely been out the game for awhile.!
Whats your input on this situation? I would definetly like to hear from you guys... MALE & FEMALE!
"Signed Sealed Delivered..... September's OWN*"
Well from reading this is a wow. I heard of many situations like this. and personally speaking I don't approve of that. However you do have females that would have threesome with there man and a close friend just to please them. but the question really is would she do it again...just like you said in your blog shan.It hurts to me look at our younger generation of females and see how they mistreat their self. This is when guidance and the sex talk comes into play. It clear this young girl didn't have neither one cause maybe she would have thought differently about the whole situation. As far as the dude that wife her. she not really his girl cause what man would want to share their prize piece with anyone. I always thought it was better to keep them guessing then letting them get a piece of the pie. but now I see I was wrong.
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I think thats the reason older dudes mess with younger chicks anyway... They feel like they can control them & throw in the occasional "IF YOU LOVE ME's" scenario & they fall for it... Im disgusted by it honestly but hey its not me & NEVER EVER WOULD IT BE!!! Cant wait for "RELATIONSHIP 103" I think we could educate a lot of chicks out there!!!
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