Monday, October 5, 2009

Relationship 102:

I'm finally taking the timeout to speak on relationship. So all you 21 and under crowd this segment is not for you SORRY! Since I started dating I can't seem to stop hearing these four words, LOVE, TRUST, SEX, and MONEY. Today these fours words are what make a relationship take off. Many may say that these are not the important factors of a healthy relationship, but I for one can second that they are. Love is the essential key when having a relationship without it you go know where.
Second is Trust. Trust let you know that you can come to your partner with just about anything, and you will always get a honest answer. Next is sex. Sex keeps the romance burning with new creations and ideas to bring the passion from one day to the next. Last is Money. Nobody wants a male or female without any money. Money doesn't hold much value but you sure as hell don't want to think your partner is just using you to get the special something they wanted but can not afford. So make sure your partner is getting it one way or another. This way the relationship towards money will be 50/50.
Relationships are based on numerous things and I say if you can't stand for what comes what being in a relationship then get out of it while you are still at ease. getting caught up, and having your heart broken can lead into many emotional break down.
So just to remind everyone of the four words that's Set's off a relationship
1. LOVE
2. SEX
3. TRUST
4. MONEY
Making a decision to run a healthy relationship is entirely up to both parties. So just make it happen and understand that it takes both side to make something work. One person can not pull everything together. Oh yeah and for the guys it's okay to take that extra step. no it won't make you look like a lame, or make it look like your open. 9 times out of ten you going to having a relationship so strong others are going to want it. Females don't be afraid to speak what's on your mind. bottle things in won't do nothing in the end, but turn u into a mad black woman... and we all know the consequences behind that. Just talk to your partner and try to come to an understanding. If that does not work than you know what must be done. Because if he can't understand you now then he never will.. the same rule applies for the males.

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